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Old 06-03-2009, 06:27 PM   #1
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I know someone that is totally raw, never done any exercise, never participated in sports.....nada. This person is a 30 year old female whose genetics should easily allow her to become fit and able fairly easily. Problem is, there is very little motivation to do so....and, the diet could use help too.

I would like to be of real help but I don't want to force the issue and kill any chance of influencing the outcome. How would you approach this situation if you wanted to get this person on the right track and interested in being fit? What kind of program would you offer? How would you make it so appealing that doing it couldn't be resisted? A group setting, individualized approach?
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Old 06-03-2009, 06:44 PM   #2
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Why do you want her to get fit?
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Old 06-03-2009, 07:14 PM   #3
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I wouldn't look at it as "getting fit" more as being involved in something that she might like. Find something that she would like that would require some movement strenuous or otherwise and let it segue into fitness later. Say adventure racing but start out with hiking or orienteering. Just a thought
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Old 06-03-2009, 09:04 PM   #4
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Forcing your will on other people wont work. Best bet is to find out if there's any sport or activity she's interested in, and see if she wants help getting there, I guess.
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Old 06-04-2009, 12:48 AM   #5
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As others have said, make it fun.
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Old 06-04-2009, 12:08 PM   #6
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Why do you want her to get fit?
that seems a very odd question on a fitness forum?
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Old 06-04-2009, 12:16 PM   #7
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hmmm, making the journey of getting fit could be viewed as having fun. I know that I'm having fun doing it, otherwise I'd just bury my beak in a bag of twinkies .

I also made note that forcing things was not my objective but rather to "be of help".
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Old 06-06-2009, 12:34 PM   #8
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Dancing. I believe every lady in the world except for my mother absolutely loves to dance. Tell her that dancing will get her abs in better shape and that doing squats will allow her to "get low" and be able to have better, quicker dance moves and allow her to dance longer.

I think this should be the end all be all of "I want so and so girl/girlfriend/spouse to start working out" threads. Learn how to dance, or find someone to dance with her and break it down at your house or the clubs 2-3 nights a week for at least 30 minutes. If you go to the clubs moderate alcohol consumption so you don't mitigate gains (I know it takes some cajones to dance sober but it's not impossible...).

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Old 06-06-2009, 06:17 PM   #9
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That's an interesting idea. She probably would like that but those days are a thing of the past for me. I'll introduce that as one of the activity ideas with her and we'll see where it goes.
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Old 06-06-2009, 06:37 PM   #10
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lol, don't be a pussy. Dance! and then film it and put it on youtube
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