It doesent sound like this is the case but sometimes if people think a newby is prone to spazzing they will either just close them down or go on the offensive.
Not saying this is whats happening to you but it never hurts to ease up a little so people will work with you especially if you are a little biiger than average.
But other than that grappling is great but nothing prepares you for it better than just more mat time.
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