Thanks to everyone for the replies! I just got back from San Diego and forgot that I had posted this.
I think that we are going to move forward...I was a bit leary about the whole thing and wanted input from others. I am 40 the wifey is 39. We have twins that are 6 months old as of yesterday. We don't plan to have any more children, so off to surgery I go
Cheers,
Doug